Past few weeks, the grandpa called and ask me about marriage stuffs for the 1st time....I did answer in a well mannered way and to my acknowledge they understand my explaination...so ok lah kaaannn...
Next few days after that the grandma called me and ask me AGAIN the SAME QUESTION...i did answer it in a well mannered way AGAIN....so, fine laahh kaann...
Then next few days after the 2nd call the grandma called me AGAIN the SAME QUESTION...i did AGAIN answer in a well mannered way....
Then while i'm working, AGAIN they called me and ask the SAME QUESTION....i did AGAIN answer in a very well mannered way....
But THE VERY NEXT DAY...THE VERY NEXT DAY AFTER THEY CALLED ME, while Me and My Fiancee BUSY with our work, They Called My fiancee and ask the same question....and My Fiancee did answer in a very well mannered way...siap bagitawu lagi....."tgh sibuk sikit".....
And the moment they called the fiancee, my blood go upstairs....ape diorang ni tak faham bahasa ke...??? tak malu ke...?? tak faham orang lain pun ade family nak kena jemput, ade byk benda nak prepare... ade banyak keje/benda nak setel....
Then i immediately send msg to le father...stop calling2 banyak kali and ask the same question, we're adults so dont be pushy, we know how to handle it and stuffs like that....
Then my brother told me, le atuk, le nenek and le father tgh sibuk mengumpat and mencaci-maki us......
Honestly, to parents out there yang ade anak perempuan yang nak berkahwin, ade ke korang call2 si pihak lelaki and push2 mcm perigi cari timba...??? Mcm tak tawu malu dengan family belah lelaki...????
Tak perlu push2 kooottt....nanti yang belah lelakinya pandai laa dia buat keje dia....dia bukan hingusan lagi... alahaaaiiii....as perempuan, malu laa dengan perangai le family mcm nih....malu sangat...what they have in their mind...???
I met the fiancee's family....they are soooo very nice, baik, peramah....totally different from le family yang suka halau anak, bergaduh adik-beradik, mengelabah, kasar and panas baran.....aaaiiihh....
When i told my frens every detail about this, SEMUA orang tak faham dengan perangai le family and apesal diorang buat mcm tu....aduhaaaiiii.....
p/s : i come from a broken family...me and my siblings, we dont get enough support, care and attention from our parents...le parents love to fight over small stuffs....they are complicated, they love to complicate simple things and they choose fight over peace....i'm tired with them and i hope when i get the chance to have my own family later, i definitely dont want to be like them....
pun begitu, sgt bersyukur sebab ade ramai kawan2 yang sgt baik+supportive, other half yg sgt mature, a great job/bisnes....setakat broken family,eeemm..anggap laaa ni ujian kecik jek...heh~
pun begitu, sgt bersyukur sebab ade ramai kawan2 yang sgt baik+supportive, other half yg sgt mature, a great job/bisnes....setakat broken family,eeemm..anggap laaa ni ujian kecik jek...heh~
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